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I would intensely dislike the idea of forgetting him and yet also dislike the way matters stand. Can you find a solution for me? M. S. Dear M. S.: What I'm going to say to you about love and marriage may not sound like advice with a firm, scientific basis, but I believe from the bottom of my heart that it's true. It's just this: If anything, anything at all, keeps a woman from marrying a man with whom she thinks herself in love; if there is any smallest doubt in her mind, then she shouldn't marry him. The kind of love which wears well through all the long years of marriage finds it own solution for problems, or does not even see the problem as such. If there is the slightest doubt in your mind, then you ought to face the possibility that this isn't the man for you. A marriage which is marred by a continuing series of arguments about money — and believe me, arguments on the subject can become both sordid and acrimonious — is no marriage at all. It sounds to me, from your letter, as if your attitude toward money and your young man's are so many miles apart that there would never be a meeting ground for them. Joan Davis FIRST WIFE Dear Joan Davis: My husband's first wife (still unmarried) and his two teen-age children have moved into the same block where we live and work. This former wife urges the children to do and say things which greatly hurt and annoy me. My husband can see no wrong in them and says he cannot understand why living in such proximity should upset me. How can I meet and overcome this problem which, to me, is beyond solving and which is endangering our marriage? R. C. Dear R. C: If you are allowing this to endanger your marriage, I think you are very foolish indeed. Look at it this way — perhaps a coldblooded way, but certainly true from your point of view as well as from the first wife's. You have every advantage. You have the man; she lost him. You are married; she is not. Here is a great opportunity for you to be magnanimous, to display the true Christian spirit, to be compassionate. I agree that the situation is not the pleasantest possible one, but it exists. As long as it does, believe me, it is the other woman who is in the unhappy position, not you. I think it's time for you to revise your values a bit. Think of the situation as one which, if not too pleasant for the first wife, certainly should not bother you, and which is pleasant for your husband, for he can see his children often. Joan Davis A FATHER'S OBSESSION Dear Joan Davis: I have always considered my marriage a real success, but unless there is a change I'm afraid it won't be long. My husband is a wonderful husband and father, except for one obsession — music. He comes from people of comfortable circumstances who lost most of their money, while he was quite young. Therefore, he had to give up his musical training. Now he has engaged a high-priced violin teacher for our young son, while I really have to skimp to clothe the child properly. He is making a nervous, high-strung child out of a sweet, normal little boy. The child is not allowed to play ball, die with shovels, help build "hide-outs" with the other boys, for fear he might injure his hands. My husband makes him practice for hours. How can I make my husband see his mistake? G.B. Dear G. B.: The most important thing for a child to be is just that: — a child. To be sure there are children who are musical prodigies, whose greatest enjoyment is in their talent. They, I think, should be encouraged. But a child who hates his violin, and who is forced to spend hours practicing it; a child who wants to enjoy the rough-and-tumble fun that is part of every boy's life, but is not allowed to do so, could well grow into a warped, unhappy adult. 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