Swing (Jan-Dec 1945)

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APPLYING THE GOLDEN RULE 47 He had been "courting"^^ a girl for several years when suddenly one moonlight night he said to her, "My dear, I have decided I do not want to get married. I am sorry to tell you this but I feel it the fair thing to do." The girl's eyes flashed and she replied spiritedly, "It is indeed the thing to do! Neither do I want to marry you." The next day Anne left for a visit with a rich uncle in a city some miles distant from her home town. The papers published pictures of the lovely girl and described the wonderful time "the popular Anne Lindsay is having as the house guest of her uncle." Reports came back of Anne's popularity. Her former fiance was told she was flamboyantly happy and carefree. The chagrined young man came time and again to my father. "I thought David was going to lose his mind," my father confided to my mother. "He wrote letters begging Anne to return and marry him." Part of the letters were returned unopened. At long last he boarded a train and almost by force took Anne to the minister's. Playing with the hearts of women is a serious matter}^ Men who want ITThe quotation marks are not ours. to live by an honorable code^* should do a lot of thinking before they permit a human heart to become a toy for their whims and pleasure. "All men kill the thing they love" is too often literally the case. There are certain obligations and trusts which should be shared and understood during the courting period. Naturally, a few casual "dates"^" hold no importance. But when a man does everything within his power to make a woman care deeply, to cause her to love him mentally, physically, spiritually, do you not agree it is up to him to follow through with a frank statement of his intentions and expectations?^^ Should there not be fairness and honor in a relationship as fine, sacred, and meaningful as a courtship of several years? When a man is doubtful about the right thing to do let him say to himself, "Am I applying the Golden Rule in my courtship?" and the answer will indeed^^ lead him to the path of honor and fair play.^' 19Know any? 20Cf. note 17. 2iPreferably engraved on sine. 22Watch your language, therel ISNcither are the italics. 23 "Hope springs eternal etc.